Where is your desire hiding?


Dear friends,

Our desires have favorite hiding places: the to-do list, the worry that wakes us at 3am, the envy of the other person you can’t stop instagram stalking, the habit of putting everyone else first.

For a long time, if you asked me what I really wanted, I wouldn’t exactly know how to answer that question. If you asked me what I was anxious about, who I was jealous of, and who I was trying to please, I would have a LOT to say.

Here's a small practice to try today. Before you get out of bed, or the next time you pause, ask yourself: what do I most want today? If you don’t know how to answer that question, ask yourself:

  • What is the desire underneath my most pressing worry?
  • Who am I most jealous of and what exactly do I want that they have?
  • And if you are a person who takes care of others all day long, ask - what if I could conjure someone to take care of me right now? What exactly would they do for me today?

Uncovering these answers is the heart of the first four days of 14 Days of Desire and Delight, which begins December 1. We go looking for your desires in their favorite hiding places, and we let them be found.

I hope you join us - it’s going to be a *delightful* ride!

With love,

Yael

Yael Shy is the CEO and Founder of Sefira Wellness with over two decades of supporting others in uncovering their inherent worth and capacity for deep joy through mindfulness. She is the author of the award-winning book What Now? Meditation for Your Twenties and Beyond (Parallax, 2017) and teaches at NYU’s Wagner School of Public Service. You can find her on Instagram at @yaelshy1.

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Yael Shy is the CEO and Founder of ​Sefira Wellness​ with over two decades of supporting others in uncovering their inherent worth and capacity for deep joy through mindfulness. She is the author of the award-winning book ​What Now? Meditation for Your Twenties and Beyond (Parallax, 2017)​ and teaches at NYU’s Wagner School of Public Service.

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