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Yael Shy is the CEO and Founder of Sefira Wellness with over two decades of supporting others in uncovering their inherent worth and capacity for deep joy through mindfulness. She is the author of the award-winning book What Now? Meditation for Your Twenties and Beyond (Parallax, 2017) and teaches at NYU’s Wagner School of Public Service.
How To Make Your New Years Resolutions Actually Stick Dear Ones, Many years ago, I asked my therapist: how do people change? He thought for a moment and answered, "In my experience, people only can change when they fully accept themselves." Huh? It was like a koan - a puzzle that is unsolvable through logical thinking. How could full acceptance be the catalyst for change, if the whole point is that we want to change something because we don't like it? I came to realize, however, that when I...
In the Dark With You Dear Ones, I was driving home after dark last week and I thought to myself, is it always this dark at this time in December? The night felt inky thick and all-encompassing, wrapping itself around everything that wasn't in the direct line of my headlights. I noticed myself tensed up, clutching the wheel unnecessarily tight, my shoulders and arms clenched. It made me think about the quote from E.L Doctorow (via my friend Liz, via Anne Lamott): "Writing a novel is like...
November Round-Up! Dear Ones, I celebrated my birthday last Sunday! It was a quiet one - brunch with my family, a visit to a bookstore, and then an escape room, which was SO fun, even for a claustrophobe like me. We even actually escaped, which is how I am able to write to you today. ;) Sometimes my birthdays have BIG messages for me -- like last year, when I heard the words loud and clear that guided my entire year: STOP making decisions based on what people think about you. That one had me...